But I wholey support your decision. I haven't met Joel... and I can't say that I believe this is gonna be forever love lasting forever, but... hell, I was ready to go apartment shopping with Nick after just going out w/ him for 3 months. I have many a good friend that is or has shacked up. Just remember it's a financial investment and have terms of what happens if you're out of work, things don't go as planned... etc etc worked out if you can. Hell, I've got two friends that bought a house a couple years ago and they've practically lived together since day 1 of meeting eachother.
Some things can work out, and sometimes you got to make the stupid mistake. There's a whole heep of pain out there, and both of us know it. You've proven yourself resiliant in the labor of love... far more resiliant than I.
And Nick and I were gonna get a 2 bedroom, partially because of the fact that sometimes you need space. It's a wise choice, and besides, if you decide that you don't want to date eachother, but want to stay roommates, it works well.
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Date: 2001-11-23 11:57 pm (UTC)Some things can work out, and sometimes you got to make the stupid mistake. There's a whole heep of pain out there, and both of us know it. You've proven yourself resiliant in the labor of love... far more resiliant than I.
And Nick and I were gonna get a 2 bedroom, partially because of the fact that sometimes you need space. It's a wise choice, and besides, if you decide that you don't want to date eachother, but want to stay roommates, it works well.
Good luck, sister.